Give him some space to spend time with his friends, and feel free to ask him what he wants from you at the moment. In fact even on first dates people find it fucking weird when people bring friends if it's not a double date so are you feeling okay? I know from personal experience that when I feel jealous I disengage from the group, when all that does is stick me deeper in my insecurities and further alienates my feelings from the rest of the group. If he truly loved you he would be understanding and make time for you but if not then you might have to end things with him. If you have a good bf, yall can talk it out and come to a consensus and maybe your bf can care for you more. Q: My boyfriend tied me up last night and threatened to feed me to his pet alligator. my boyfriend ignores me when his sister is around. You continuing to be with him, and just putting up with it, isn't helping the situation - because you are teaching him that whatever he's doing is acceptable behaviour. Give it a few days and see what develops. Owing to the nature of the emergency, your boyfriend couldn't inform you beforehand. It's said that when a man brings you home to meet his family, it means that his intentions toward you are serious but that isn't all. If he enjoys your alone time, he will want more of it naturally. They are an online therapy platform in which you can call, text, or video chat with a therapist every week. He shouldn' t know he has a timeframe. OP seems to try to please the bf by borrowing his hobbies, but he doesn't seem that interested in keeping her happy. Im sorry but thats just mean. Make it clear you support their relationship, and not mention anything that shows you're jealous or comparing. Do not wait around for him to change, go and find a relationship that makes you happy. Here are a few things you can do if you feel like your boyfriend ignores you when his daughter is around. Sounds like a nice guy but do the right thing let him be. When I finally have some free time to spend with family, Id much rather spend it with my daughters than with my wife. I would maybe try reading the post again. It's family so you've already lost. My siblings and I are best friends. If it's time apart, respect that. Tell him that you dont want to be with someone who dont respect you and leave. Theres a lot that could he going on so just talk it out. Id say something like I need this from you in our relationship in order for it to work and hed hit me back with the well my mom and my sister both said they dont see why do you, and that they dont need that in order for their relationships to work, so why do you keep insisting on it?. He may just very well have an close bond with his sister. That said, his sister may be going through something that youre not aware of, and his attention could be on her more than he realizes. Learn to find enjoyment independently instead of begrudgingly following them around because this should be bf time. He wont understand the issue as he is disrespecting you by not asking for your preference and paying little attention to your feelings but rather he will interpret it as you trying to question or influence their relationship.