Islamic scholars and several hadiths agree that the good deeds of visitors are transferable to dead loved ones. Visitors to Benjamin Franklins grave have been tossing pennies on his grave for decades. Nancy Pelosi visit to Taiwan would cause 'grave harm,' China warns 1. Many Japanese people who enjoy Halloween and Christmas naturally think, "Yes, I have to visit the grave" as if they were incorporated into my life at Obon, New Year, and equinoctial week. 4 Ways Visiting a Loved One's Grave Can Help You Grieve Somehow, when I go home in the summer or winter, I can see a picture that grandpa and grandma prepare a treat and welcome. You may choose to have a picnic at your loved ones grave. You can tailor your visit to your own and your familys needs. What Miracles Did Pope John Paul II Perform? Things we were going to do together, that I just can't get into gear to do without him. As they entered the tomb, they saw a young man dressed in a white robe sitting on the right side, and they were alarmed. What do you say when you visit a grave? - Quora 'I never realized': Airbnb hosts warn of scam taking advantage of first Many people visit the grave on the anniversary of their family's death. It seems that many people who keep graves such as monks feel that it is preferable to see the Dan family cleaning the graves frequently and holding their hands together. January 10, 2008 7:58pm CST. If you are asking "what time should I go for the time being? Among the first visitors were a couple whose infant died in 2013 and the mothers of two stillborn baby girls, lost more than 20 years ago. Talking with your loved one can help reconnect you to the special person in your life you have lost. But opting out of some of these cookies may affect your browsing experience.